Muslims Wary About Charity – But Raids Don’t Stop Generosity at Ramadan

By SHABINA S. KHATRI  
FREE PRESS STAFF WRITER

September 24, 2006

Ajaz Khan doesn’t consider himself a cynical person, but he finds it hard not to be – especially when deciding where to give.

“Give in the name of Islam? No,” Khan, 54, of Rochester Hills said, referring to a common pitch from Muslim-run nonprofits asking people to donate because they share a faith. “If I don’t know about you, why should I give it to you?”

With federal officials raiding Southfield-based Life for Relief and Development last week, the faithful are facing difficult questions during Ramadan, the holiday period that began this weekend and lasts for a month. Among the biggest: how to perform the obligatory zakaat- donating 2.5% of one’s income to the poor – without inadvertently being linked to terrorism.

Some people, fearing government harassment, are redirecting their giving to nondenominational charities. And many of those who’ve decided to stick with Muslim-run nonprofits have started donating in cash and staying away from lesser-known charities altogether.

“The current environment is so polluted,” Khan said Wednesday after finishing prayers at an area mosque.

But, he added, that doesn’t give Muslims an excuse to shy away from charitable giving: They should just do their homework first.

He spoke two days after the raid on Life, Michigan’s largest Muslim charity, where officials have criticized the government for maligning its name so close to Ramadan.

Officials with the charity say the FBI might be investigating whether it conducted business in Iraq before the war in violation of sanctions against the country. Life maintains it had all the required licenses to do business in Iraq.

The charity still is open and accepting donations, but the raid’s proximity to Ramadan could have a profound effect: This is the month that Muslim charities collect much of their income for the year, said Anwar Khan, manager of U.S. fund-raising for Islamic Relief, a global group that gets about a third of its annual donations during Ramadan.

Though no charges have been filed against Life or several other Muslim charities that have been investigated in recent years, the raids cast doubts in the minds of many donors, including Nadir Shuttari, a 34-year-old Rochester Hills resident.

“I don’t think anybody should change their practice of donating just because they’re under scrutiny by the government,” he said Thursday. “But I’m still deciding what to do.”

While many Michigan residents remain motivated to give by family ties to places like Iraq, Lebanon and the Palestinian territories, not all will do so openly, said Mouhib Ayas, a physician who sits on the board of directors for the Muslim Unity Center of Bloomfield Hills, which has seen a rise in cash donations.

“This is unfortunate,” he said Wednesday. Anonymous cash donations aren’t tax deductible, he explained, “So probably, people will give less.”

But not all Muslim charities are suffering. Islamic Relief, which received a four-star rating from Charity Navigator, a  Web site that evaluates nonprofits, has seen an increase in donations since 9/11.

Islamic Relief’s Anwar Khan said part of the reason for that is because so many other Muslim charities have been shut down since then.

And though the group does work in various countries, it also has participated in many domestic programs, including HIV prevention campaigns and Hurricane Katrina relief efforts.

That kind of visibility helps, said Khan, who added that nearly half of Islamic Relief’s donations now come from non-Muslims.

Included on that list is Sally Howell, a 41-year-old graduate student in Ann Arbor. She said she began donating money to Life and Islamic Relief after the 2004 tsunami – but not until after thorough background checks.

“I know a lot of these charities work in areas that are politically difficult to work in,” she said. “But you can’t be a charity operating at the intersection of America and the Muslim world without double, triple checks.”

She added that she sympathized with Muslims who are reticent to give to certain groups for fear of government harassment.

“It makes me fear for my future and security, but my intentions are clean,” she said.

Parents, Here’s a New Web Worry: Homemade Highs a Click Away

By SHABINA S. KHATRI
FREE PRESS STAFF WRITER

September 10, 2006

Four years ago, curiosity about marijuana brought an Idaho teenager named Nick to a popular online drug encyclopedia.

Kids are plugged in…

• Almost 90% of 12- to 17-year-olds use the Internet; half of them use it daily.

• About 19 million teens instant message.

• 60% of teens have their own cell phone.

• One in four teens with a cell phone has used the phone to connect to the Internet.

But parents aren’t.

• One-third of 13- to 15-year-olds and about half of 16- to 17-year-olds report that their parents know “very little” or “nothing” about what they do on the Internet.

• 64% say that most teens do things on the Internet they wouldn’t want their parents to know about.

• 42% of parents do not review the content of what their teens read and/or type in chat rooms or via instant messaging.

• One-third of parents surveyed allow their teenagers to use the computer in private areas of the house, such as a bedroom or home office.

• 22% of 13- to 17-year-olds said their parents or guardians had never discussed Internet safety with them.

Source: Free Press Research

Now 18 and in a rehabilitation program in Southfield, Nick said he became obsessed with the Web site’s offerings — particularly the vaults filled with information about hundreds of mind-altering chemicals, herbs and plants. The site, which the journal Pediatrics reported receives 250,000 clicks daily, also has thousands of posts from users, mostly twentysomethings, about their substance experiences.

“I was so fascinated,” said Nick, whose last name is not being published because the drug charges he faced were juvenile charges. He added that the information emboldened him to experiment with many substances. “The fear, the taboo of using ecstasy and crack — you really start to doubt that fear when someone tells you there’s a healthier way. I would never have done a lot of the drugs I did if it wasn’t for that Web site.”

An increasing number of teen users are turning to the Web to feed or develop their habits, say counselors, drug abuse prevention experts and those in law enforcement. There has been little research into how the Internet enables teens to find new — and cheap — ways to get high, but all 12 of the adolescents in rehabilitation programs questioned for a study published last year said information they found online guided how they experimented with drugs.

Experts say it’s another danger of unmonitored and unfettered access to the Internet for teens, with the same simple solution — parents keeping a closer eye on what their kids do online.

No prescriptions needed

Over the past decade, the number of Web sites glorifying drug usage, providing step-by-step recipes for homemade highs and pushing products through questionable online storefronts has increased exponentially. And tech-savvy teens, undetected by their less-informed parents, are flocking to these sites, using them to score drugs, swap stories and further their habits.

One study found only 6% of Web sites selling prescription drugs require prescriptions, making “these drugs as easy to buy over the Internet as candy,” said Bo Deitl, chairman of Beau Dietl and Associates, which did the analysis with the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University.

It’s not just access to drugs that’s troublesome — misinformation also plays a role.

“To me, that’s the bigger danger,” said Brian Spitsbergen, director of youth assistance for Growth Works, a Plymouth-based agency that helps those with chemical dependency.

“You can find Web pages that tell you how to make ,,, name it, recipes for methamphetimine to hallucinogens to anything else. It’s all over the place. But the recipes may be poison. You find a recipe for meth … that may be instant death.”

Under parents’ noses

To address the problem, the Office of National Drug Control Policy published an open letter to parents last month with tips on monitoring teens’ digital activities.

“Technology has created an environment for kids where they can really stay under the surface — right under adults’ noses,” Spitsbergen said.

Now, he added, finding drug dealers can be as easy as logging onto MySpace.com — and obtaining the drugs as simple as sending a text message.

“Anytime you want drugs, it’s a call or a click away,” said Nick, who used to go through 3,600 minutes monthly on his cell phone.

Keeping kids safe online

• Computers record a history of recent Web sites viewed, which can be used to detect where your teen has surfed. Generally, you can view this history by clicking on “My Computer” from the desktop; selecting the “C” drive; selecting either “History” or “Windows” and then selecting “Temporary Internet Files.”

• Limit your teen’s time spent online, and put computers in a common area of the house so you can more easily monitor use.

• Know the people who are listed in your teen’s electronic phone book and check the cell phone manual to learn how to review stored pictures, recent calls and text messages. If a strange number appears on the monthly bill, ask about it.

• Visit your teen’s Web site or personal blog. Review your teen’s profile, pictures, video, and music uploads. Also check out the links that your teen includes on his or her page. Check out the network, as well, and what type of information is on your teen’s friends’ sites.

• Remind your teens that the Internet is a public space and anyone, including college admissions offices, potential employers, and even predators, can see what they’re posting online.

Source: http://www.theantidrug.com

Though keeping up with technology may seem daunting, experts advocate simple strategies for parents to stay abreast of teens’ activities.

Among them: checking cell phone records, Internet chat buddy lists and Web page view histories.

“The job of parents is to know where their kids are whether it’s in the real world or the virtual world,” said Jennifer DeVallance, a representative from the Office of National Drug Control Policy . “It’s a matter of safety.”

Kids want parents to listen

These tactics may help parents learn whether their kids are using drugs, but the best way to prevent them from using in the first place is to have honest discussion, said Ken Krygel, a former police officer who specializes in tracking drug trends in metro Detroit.

“Parents think they communicate with their kids by talking to them,” Krygel said. “But kids tell me, ‘I’d like my mom or dad to stop for a minute and listen to what I have to say.’ No matter how wrong it is, let them say their piece.”

That kind of communication, said Jay, 18, of Brighton, might have given him the courage to refuse drugs offered him in junior high.

“For me, it was curiosity and wanting acceptance from others,” said Jay, who has been drug-free for almost a year. The Free Press is not publishing his name because, like Nick, he faced juvenile drug charges. “I always said, ‘I’ll never use drugs.’ But I tried it once, and the high was so great, it turned into a daily thing for me.”

Jay’s mother, Eunice, said she sensed something was wrong, but never imagined the problem was drug abuse.

Her son always denied using anything more than marijuana. Eunice said she also was thrown off by the fact that Jay kept his grades up and held down a part-time job.

“We all have perceptions about people who do drugs,” she said. “My perception is that they wouldn’t be able to function.”

Take marijuana use seriously

Jay said he used text messaging to sell the DXM — a hallucinogen found in cough medicines — he obtained from Web sites to his peers.

In retrospect, Jay’s mother said she should have listened more and lectured less when she and her son talked about drug use. She also advises parents to take all substance use — including marijuana and alcohol — seriously.

“I know a lot of adults say they smoked marijuana as teens and stopped at that, but in this day and age, a lot of kids don’t stop at marijuana,” she said. “They go further than that. If you think there’s something wrong with your child, usually there is.”

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